ACCEPTANCE.......'The Key To The Inner Peace.'

"As I get older, the more I stay focused on the ACCEPTANCE of myself and others, and choose compassion over judgement and curiosity over fear."
                                    -Tracee Ellis Ross.

Whenever we meet people, we meet with a certain type of aura which we possess and hence, there occurs an exchange of energies the moment we start to gel with each other. There is both the influence and effect of respective auras to each other and this is what lays the foundation of any relationship.

There is always an effect of one's vibrations to another in any relationship which we call as 'vibes'. And we can't control these and thus if you think ill about another person, the latter would consequently revert the negative vibes to you.

The type of thinking we process is the type of aura we ultimately possess.

In any relationship, if you hold unpleasant or nasty feelings for another, you can't share a good bond by faking it as the other person gets to feel that and there is always a sense of burden in such relation since the negative vibrations continue to exist amongst them.
It would not only affect the concerned relationship but also complicate your other relationships as well, as this is what you are carrying with you as a part of your aura. This is due to the fact that holding negative energies within you is just ruining your inner self and you will meet other people with such polluted being.

The only way we can bring this to rest and stop degrading our relations and ourselves is to ACCEPT the things for what these are and the people for who they are.

It is WE who are abusing our minds and nobody else because, in a relationship where we have lots of disagreements and resentment to another person, we constantly seek or urge the apology from them. And only because we don't accept the things and the other person, we continue to get hurt and frustrated by letting the power of hatred and aggression to override the pure essence, love and peace of the relationship.

According to me, nobody in any relationship should be judged for having their own set of deal-breakers and deal-makers. Rather this should be given its due respect.

After all, you can't retain one side of a person which you like and chunk out the other you don't. The same energy that creates the side of the person you love is also the one that creates the side that drives you crazy and demands your understanding.

Any person in a relationship is like a coin has two sides. And therefore, every streak of personality should be accepted and given its due space and respect. Both liked and unliked habits in a person are inextricably linked, we can't separate these in the person. 
When I as a person is full of imperfections then how can I expect another one to be perfectly in line with what I expect him to be.

Here I would also like to mention that I am not at all in favour of accepting the gross negative and universal ill traits which are unacceptable in any form and shape. I am only referring to accepting different people having different personality traits which may or may not correlate or correspond the way we want them to be.

We need not change ourselves to be accepted by others nor we should expect others to change entirely to fit into our needs, it is that we just have to rub off our sharper edges to acclimatize to different and everchanging situations of our lives and with people, we care and love by accepting these in a form they naturally are.

We need to accept them and situations, in order to deal with their respective idiosyncrasies as failure to do so, would cause conflicts and we may have to lose our loved ones in a way.

We need to accept that many disagreements and conflicts are perpetual and may even last our entire lives. In such a situation, the only thing to remember is the significance of the relationship over the mere conflict.

Also, there are times when even after investing so much of yourself and energy into a certain relationship, it no longer stays the way it meant to be, accept it. Do it for your own peace of mind as it is what keeps you going. You can't be stuck to such a situation where all is left with you is nothing but remnants of the bruised relationship.

ACCEPTANCE is not a sign of weakness or helplessness but a synonym for WISDOM. It not only makes a person corresponds to the unwelcoming circumstances but also gives the conviction that if it is what meant to be, here I am to face it and henceforth, even if I can't change things, at least try to control the aftermath consequences which would be worse, by putting myself into more pain and anxiety.

NON-ACCEPTANCE of things and situations leads to unnecessary contemplations and over pondering that sequentially leads to mental exhaustion and trauma. If we despair over situations and people, this feeling is alone sufficient to work like a magnet attracting even worse outcomes and therefore repelling better things which we could have fetched if we weren't on our non-acceptance and repent mode.

Acceptance is all about growth. So Guys!
Choose acceptance and hence THE GROWTH.


As I conclude,

"The greatest gift you can give to others is the gift of unconditional love and ACCEPTANCE."
                                                                   -Brian Tracy.